Grief is natural
Grief is a natural part of life. Sadly our pets don’t live as long as we
would like. We know all too well what
this pain feels like. What it is to
make the choice that we have for our pets who are in so much pain and their
quality of life is not there. We have
that voice. It is never easy when a
loved pet, who has been more like a child, becomes unable to have a quality
of life.
We recently said good-bye to our beloved Roo. She was by my side since she came
home. She was an old soul even as a
puppy. She was training to become a
service dog at just five months and by 8 months was bulletproof. She was there to guide me and to protect me
for only four short years.
Sadly just before she turned 4 years old she had ruptured a
disk in her back. She instantly went
from the active pup to one who was unable to move. We took her to several vets and when told
only a high priced surgery would give her minimal chance at ever walking
again. I couldn’t do that. Couldn’t afford it. What we wanted was to find a chiropractor
for pets.
We found a wonderful chiropractor and put Roo’s life in her
hands. She was amazing and when we
went to visit Roo just 24 hours after dropping her off she had her glow back,
her desire to live. We knew then that
we would give Roo everything we could, until she told us that it was time.
That time came two years, two months, and two days later. We let Roo go play without pain and without
wheels. She is now free to run and
dock dive again and to help those waiting on the other side until their loved
ones met them once again.
If you have lost a pet you know this pain and if anyone tells
you that you need to get over it know that there are others like yourself
that cry because a piece of their heart was taken when the pet passed.
Pnut’s Corner.
This has been a hard month on me. The holidays were great and I am glad that
I had this with my family. I was with
my Mom and Dad when they let my Grandmother Roo pass away. I was placed in another room while they
said their good-byes but brought me back and when I realized that Roo’s soul
was gone I laid my head on the floor.
They say dog’s have no feelings but when Mom and Dad brought
her body home to be buried they were thinking about our needs. They brought her to the yard and placed her
by the grave they dug. We each said
our good-byes. My Great Grandma May
even sent a ball with Roo because she would need one if she wanted to dock
dive again. Stinky just couldn’t
understand why she wasn’t trying to play with her. Cole, Lattee, & Chrystal said their
good-byes and then wanted to play again.
Max had the hardest time of everyone.
He was gieving for a few days.
Me, I still go to her grave and want to know why her body rest here
but I still see her soul playing in the yard.
I have been there for Mom since Roo’s passing and have stepped
up to the plate. I have even become
what Mom says is a big girl because my body started to cycle. Mommy says that I am now a woman.
It was so warm that I loved it, January is supposed to be cold
with lots of snow, but it all melted away until one day it got so sold out
and it was snowing. I love the
snow. I dig in the snow for
poopsicles. It is gross to you humans but we find it a special treat. It is normal for us especially if we are
fed corn filled foods or the food wasn’t digested before it was pooped out.
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